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“But ChatGPT said I could stop my antidepressant”
Young adults are turning to chatbots for medication advice. Here’s the inside scoop from someone who used to skip doses and hide it.
Nov 7
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October 2026
“I’m going to Ben’s house” (they’re not going to Ben’s house)
Why your young adult lies about where they are, why the location-tracking arms race is a losing game, and why it’s honestly okay not to know everything.
Oct 29
1
Structure is great advice. What does it actually look like?
What I learned about routine from school, sports, and residential treatment programs.
Oct 21
1
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They said they’re “figuring it out.”
But what does that actually mean?
Oct 13
3
The Expert Living Down the Hall Just Might Know A Thing or Two
What they see that you, their therapist, and everyone else can't
Oct 6
4
September 2026
Read This Before September Ends
Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, renamed Sticking Around Month, from people who stuck around
Sep 28
4
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"Just $20" (again)
Why teens and young adults keep asking for money, and how to set limits that hold.
Sep 22
3
You want them to go out. You’re also worried.
Making room for fun while there’s still plenty to figure out.
Sep 15
1
Can’t they, or won’t they?
The blurry line between mental illness and a lack of willingness and what to do either way (from not-a-therapist).
Sep 9
3
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Should I be worried that they're still living at home?
What the numbers say and what to ask instead of the timeline question.
Sep 1
August 2026
Psst… What about your other kid?
Four patterns I see in siblings and three things you can do this week.
Aug 26
3
Stop telling your kid to get a job (do these 5 things instead)
The Yale study that finally proved what we've been telling parents for years.
Aug 15
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Hayley Caddes
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